by PKN » Thu Mar 06, 2003 10:05 am
True, I agree, bt remember one thing, most people read newspapers and make decisions and most people give suggestions even when they dont know abt it, thats the problem. its ok if u listen to some one who knows something and most of the time u wont find the right person who will guide u. thats y i say, u have to make an independent decision so that u will not blame others later.its a difficult one, but u will see ur confidence building when u take ur own decisions. i went against everyone including my parents and joined a not so well known branch in a topnotch rather than joining CSE/ECE in Osmania or JNTU, then i didnt join a high paying IT job, coz it wanted to study abroad. i made the touch decision thinking abt the future,literally fighting with my family members and many times regretted because it was hard when people ridicule my decisions, but in the end i finished everything and settled and happy, no complaints what so ever and my family now say \"we always thought u were confused and was making wrong decisions\". most importantly , as i said, i have the confidence to make my own decisions. So, the Secret is \"BE UR SELF\". I have an Idea, i am totally against Mr.CB Naidu opening many engg colleges, but in a way, it will reduce unemployment, try working as lecturer in new engg colleges